Intrinsically Powerful Partnerships Rise & Thrive on Purpose
Bring Me That Higher Love...
If you keep over-giving, attracting unavailable partners, playing hero to many but lose yourself in relationships and silently suffer alone — it’s not you.
It's your unhealed
attachment patterns
Best time to schedule your call is post breakup or before you take a few risks in your romantic life.
Use this free 60 minute call as your chance to gain key insight and support for your relationship root goals.
Replace providing, protecting and performing & hunting for that perfect strategy with the skill to embrace the peace, pleasure and purpose in an authentic, growth-oriented relationship
* Don't worry - call contains no selling or weird marketing funnel to cringe through.
REWIRE YOUR ATTACHMENT
REWRITE YOUR LOVE STORY
Create Great Love...
THIS IS WHY WE ARE DIFFERENT...
The Beloved Process is your return to relational sovereignty —to loving without losing yourself, to leading without armouring up, to being met without having to prove your worth.​
Grow into secure attachment and make life choices rooted in freedom from the many coping mechanisms stemming from insecure attachment where wounds unintentionally run the show. Replace fear-driven narratives that keep you coping instead of thriving so you can feel alive in relationships shifting from "what can I get from this relationship?" - a survivalist question - toward "what can we create together?"
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FIND OUT WHAT THE BELOVED PROCESS ACHIEVES...
Insecure Attachment is the Root of Scarcity Patterns in Love, Leadership and Life Relationships.
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When your nervous system feels supported, your heart can open.
And that’s when your love story begins to change — from the inside out.
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Rewire at the Root
& Rise in All of Life.
With Integrative Attachment Coaching, you're not coping to survive life and each other. You're shifting the source of frustrating patterns at the subconscious root to actually heal and thrive together.
Love was designed to help us in becoming our authentic, free and powerfully present self - both alone and in partnership - but the emotion of love isn't enough.
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Backed by neuroscience, this healing process brings lasting change to the root of how you relate — not just romantically, but in how you lead, set boundaries, and trust yourself under pressure so you can trust yourself as you rise and thrive.
You don’t need years to change.
I wish I found this method in my twenties but the truth is, powerful love can be found and created at any age.
Its never too late.
The more important fact is not exactly how long it will take to shift from core wounds running the show but rather, the fact that we attract what we are - the patterns that we run subconsciously are reflected in our partner so if we want a better relationship, we need to take back our power of responsibility.
From a spark - comes our chance to evolve.
Our subconscious wounds - when found as a match in another - it sparks an attraction that is hard to ignore because it is like a biological "second chance' to heal or resolve the story setup in childhood to get the secure love you needed. Amazing, right?
The sooner we rewire our core wounds and learn the skills to relate securely, the sooner we:
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relate authentically, freely
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can create more purpose-focused lifestyles
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nurture a growth partnership where you both get better and yet more at ease
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communicate clearly instead of withholding around unspoken expectations
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process emotions to tend to the unmet needs underneath reducing the "charge" in relational upsets; increasing accountability and trust
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tending to belief patterns and choosing in alignment with our conscious intent
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create the safety and boundaried agreements allowing us to have patience and respect for our partner's journey and our own amidst varying degrees of capacity
After as quick as 16 weeks you will be living new chapters of your life story calling in the love you thought you couldn't hold. You will have the practices ingrained and know what to do when triggers surprise you and bring up old conditioning.​
​​From Survival to Secure — What Healing Looks Like
in Real Life...​
If you tend to over-give or chase connection (Anxious-Preoccupied):
From: Texting back instantly, overthinking your partner's tone, doubting your worth
To: Trusting space in the relationship, expressing needs with clarity, magnetizing respect​
If you tend to shut down or avoid emotional intimacy
(Dismissive-Avoidant):​
From: Feeling drained by emotional needs, craving distance, hiding vulnerability
To: Feeling safe expressing emotions, leading from empathy, co-creating connection without losing yourself​
If you tend to push-pull or feel torn between intimacy and self-protection (Fearful-Avoidant):
From: Over-analyzing, fearing betrayal, testing your partner’s love
To: Grounding in emotional safety, choosing connection over chaos, building relational confidence
Find out where you are at in your journey toward the authentic, fulfilling world of secure relating.
Can you believe that up to 97%
of our thoughts, reactions,
and relationship choices
are shaped by subconscious patterns—formed before we turned 7 years old?​​​
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Our early wiring is so powerful!
It teaches us what love feels like, how much to trust, and whether it’s safe to express our needs in important relationships.
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If you grew up with secure attachment, you likely feel safe being yourself in love: you can express emotions, set boundaries, and recover from conflict without spiralling.
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But if your early environment lacked consistency, safety, or emotional presence, your nervous system may still be stuck in survival patterns—like over-giving, shutting down, or trying to “fix” your way into being loved. It doesn't work no matter how sincere your effort or how well the stars are aligned. Generations of painful patterns from attachment wounds perpetuate until we stop the pattern, inquire within and effectively tend to the root; our core attachment wounds.
Yes, the biggest contributor to our partner decision-making capacity is our subconscious conditioning which -by default- keeps us in a loop of repeated, familiar yet unsatisfying patterns in relationships if we are insecurely attached. ​
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That means that our free will is not freed up until we are relating securely. ​​
You've done so much work on yourself...
So, why are you still seeing the same pattern in relationships?​​
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It's not your fault - you are leaning in, humbly discovering where your true power is but there are a few facts left out of the majority of well-meaning self-help world.
The short answer is:
Understanding your patterns alone won’t transform them.
Which pattern sounds most like yours?
​​I have to give bigger, better or more
to be loved & not abandoned.
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Your pattern is that you cared too much and burned out in the past giving too much too quickly to try to prove you are good enough for them. You check in often so you show them you are there, but you are secretly trying to hold on to them so you can feel safe. You have a hard time fully soothing your fears so you lean harder on others. It's your truth that you aren't enough and this conditioned belief drives you to gain proximity to feel safe and loved by holding on tight to survive until they leave fearing suffocation, engulfment and overwhelm.
​CORE WOUNDS AT PLAY:
I WILL BE ABANDONED I AM UNSAFE. I WILL BE ALONE. I AM NOT GOOD ENOUGH. I AM/WILL BE REJECTED I AM/WILL BE UNLOVED I AM EXCLUDED. I AM/WILL BE DISLIKED. I AM BAD
Choose Your Own Adventure​​
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Discover the Hidden Pattern Blocking Connection — and the Path to Relating with Sovereign Confidence.
This isn’t a discovery call or a mini pitch to our program either — it’s a value-rich 60 minute session where you’ll be:
✅ Heard, validated, and seen for the truth of where you're at in love and how much you’re holding on your own that isn't yours to hold
✅ Guided to the root of what’s really driving the relationship stress
✅ Given a clear pathway to shift from self-abandonment, anxiety, or over-giving into a secure, magnetic presence that creates deeper love and clarity — whether you're currently single or in partnership
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If it’s a fit, you’ll be invited into The Beloved Process, a proven path to stop leaking energy and start creating the kind of love, intimacy, and sovereign connection your nervous system has craved all along.
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